Rena, I am soooo deeply sorry for the loss of your son. I can only imagine what you are going through. My family and I will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. Recently a woman named Barbara lost one of her children to a food bacteria. She had one child that had CAH and one that did not and they both got the same bacteria. Unfortunately, the children got extremely sick and the doctors had a difficult time fighting the bacteria. In the end, it was the child that had CAH that was able to fight off the bacteria. Sadly, the other child did not make it. Sometimes it is hard to tell if will hinder the recovery from an illness. I know it is too soon for you to see past your grief, but in time you will realize that you spent a wonderful day with your son, eating pizza and laughing out loud. Some children never have that in their lives. Please stay in touch with us so that we can try to help you through some of your grief. We are all here for you. May God's strength be with you. LynnLynnT