For quick access to a message board for adults with CAH go down to Joan W. post. It is located a few post below this one. It is under the "Clitoris Reduction" Post. There are definately some women on that board that you could share with. I wish you lots of luck in with your surgery. I read an article in a magazine here in U.S. called "Readers Digest" about a famous model from I believe Africa that was mutilated as part of her religion. They called it female circumsized. I apologize that I do not know her name. My heart goes out to all of the women that had such bad experiences as you. Good luck and I hope you find comfort in speaking with the CAH adult board.