Hi! Deb! Could you tell me if you are severly virilized? Do you have saltwasting? You said that you had two surgeries. Did you have clitoroplasty and vaginoplasty? Did you have to dilate after the vaginoplasty? I'm trying to figure out if the outcome of the surgeries could have anything to do with the severity.. Since you had your surgery years before my daughter I don't know why hers would be so different. Some of the women in their 20's have poor results too. Some of these women have stated that their genitals don't look normal even after surgery, and then some do. I am wondering if they looked different to begin with. If you don't feel comfortable answering here you could e-mail me at goldiezz37@hotmail.com I work in the medical field so talking about anatomy comes very easy to me but I forget that other people don't. My husband and daughter won't let me talk about my job at the dinner table! I forget sometimes. Any info would be appreciated.