kathyLaura,
Thanks for "going to bat" for all of us parents who only want the best for our daughters. It frustrates me that this topic always ends up as hostile as it does. I am unwilling to enter into the fray anymore, but I appreciate that you are willing. I believe many of us have just given up and positively cringe when the subject is brought up. Trust that I have spoken extensively with our ped endo and ped urologist and they have given me some terrific insight and history on the subject. And I believe this is what it all boils down to...good communication and looking at each situation as unique in itself. There should be no "blanket decision" that covers every CAH situation. God bless you, Laura, for being a voice for many of us. You are incredibly strong.
kathy