First of all congratulations to your wife for carrying a 14 pounder!!!!  I can only imagine what that must have been like. 

Our 2 year old salt-wasting CAH daughter was very irritable and unsettled as a baby.  To this day I believe she had discomfort from her medication as she was particularly upset after having her meds.  I mentioned this to her Endo on a number of occasions and he assured me it was nothing to do with meds.  She did suffer from Reflux, but I do believe this was caused from the medication.   On top of her CAH meds, we then had to give her meds for the Reflux, you can just imagine what it was like giving 5 different medications at different times of the day!!

We have had very few problems with our daughter's CAH, just 2 trips to hospital for short stays.  She is now going through the "terrible two" stage and is keeping us on our toes!

Good luck to you and your family.