Yikes! I thought - after I posted that last message - that it might not have come out as I had intended: I, in no way, meant to imply or suggest that Ryan is or ever was overweight (I have SEEN pictures of him: he is NOT overweight, and is a beautiful little boy!). It is ME that has this problem, and I was just trying to make a comparison with your situation by saying that even though I am indeed overweight, I would not want to be publically recognized for this - especially in the small town where I grew up! I apologize if I offended you, Lynn! I would certainly never do that on purpose. God's blessings.