Ok I dont think this is a bad or awful thing. No one should be so negative...everyone experiences things different. My daughter had vaginoplasty and clitoralplasty at the age of 4 months. I dont regret any of it. Some people can wait and some need it done. The decisions is all yours. Everyone who posts their "opinions" is great but thats just what it is an "opinion" and the decsion is all yours. Please just research it and get as much info as possible. I wish you the best.Amber