I agree Janet please read my message below on previous thread.  Some parents do applaud you and are grateful to you - we need to be educated and we will only learn from those who have suffered! I am just so sorry that there is nothing one can do to repair the physical and mental damage caused to all those who have been affected.  This is the value of a message board.  We all know what our children are and love them anyway, intersex is only a medical word