Of course they don't, they are too immature at that age........but when they are maturing, they will start to think individually of you (their parent) and develop a more individual opinion that may not coincide with yours.  They will perceive their body as THEIR body at some point and realise that they are separate from you and can apply CAUSE and see EFFECT.  Then as they become an adult, they may develop a totally opposite way of dealing with a siutation that you yourself chose.  Let's say for example we were brought up with parents that clipped us around the ear everytime we did something.  Some children may adopt that particular style of parenting when they grow up, other's would dwell on how they felt about it and do things differently.  The intersex society are just fighting for the rights of your daughters individuality whilst they can't do it for themselves.......in the early years....

 

 

Val