I second what Kimberly said....No rules are needed (and havent been needed in the 3+ yrs that I have been visiting this site). We are all concerned parents trying to learn the best way possible to raise these wonderful children that we have been given. Kimberly said we need common sense. I agree with that, but would also like to add --we need to respect eachother with common courtesy. I would hope that we wouldn't have to post that as a "rule".