Well (sigh) I have been observing from a distance and wanting to say SO much but holding back to see where things go. So now ( deeper sigh ) I would like to just note a few of my observations- as this board pertains to ME. I am hesitant to say ANYTHING but that would be wrong too. I don't need a list of rules on board behavior to know how to behave. I was new once too. I don't feel the need to lash out at others. I find it confusing and perhaps a bit deceptive to see a name (ie Braydensmom) not be consistant from one place to the next. There is a huge difference between a debate and an attack with name calling. If "I" were called a name... OK So what? Move on. Rules of this Board..... LOL! Are the same as rules of life! I don't have to be told - Don't Step in front of a moving car - for me to know it would not be a good idea. Sometimes silence is stronger than words. I think my tongue is bleeding. I look forward to more debates and to many more questions and stories of wins and losses in the life of those living with CAH. Susan