Julie HIs :
http://www/geocities.com/Heartland/Canyon/7906/
I came across it on line some time ago whilst researching something else and I remembered it when I first saw your post Beth. I think a lot of what Sean said was very very sensible. Atleast I have taken it in and feel that I may use that if I should ever find the same happening to us with our child.
Best Wishes and hope that you get things sorted out,
J
J