I am overwhelmed by all of your gracious responses and support for my sons and I.      I did not know that the anger and other feelings Kevin is transmitting to others could be from his levels being so off.  I have always blamed myself that I must have been a horrible mother to him because Brad is the total opposite......wants to live and be healthy.  Kevin is a wonderful kid.      I will start by having his pills crushed up, and put it in a drink for him......Kev rarely eats.  He sleeps 13 hours at a time (not a day!).  He has (on his OWN) been filling out college entrance applications for computer design schools.....He is an Excellent artist!, but never follows through.  So, I feel there is a desire to live on to a happy life.  Wouldn't you get that impression?       If I can at least get his meds in him and hopefully talk to him at the same time to get other help.    thank you so much for the URL's to other sites.  If I can find him a chat or message board for him to talk to other people with CAH going through the same,  I can only hope he will use it.        Would anyone object to emailing him your stories, if I ask him and he agrees?  Or would that backfire?           I cannot thank everyone enough for your support.  I will focus on your messages and emails.  I feel positive about this.  thank you!   I will keep you posted on how things are going and hope I can be there for you .                Beth K .