Diane,

It has baffled me as to the reason why you respond in this way to a query on the board which I felt was very relevant to problems that COULD be experienced by anyone of us in the future.  Especially using such coarse language as too.  Not very lady like and certainly not appreciated on the message board.  Divorce is never easy, and none of us are perfect.    Perhaps Douglas came to the board looking for some positive advice, and I have no idea why you think that there would be any in your post.  You seem to lack understanding in my opinion and if you cannot say anything positive, try not postng at all.

JH