Hi Kaye I haven't visited the board in a couple of weeks as it is soooo slow. I also have a daughter with CAH, she is three. I just wanted to say that I agree with you in that no-body knows about your little one as well as you do, if you feel surgery is right for her, who can anyone be better qualified to make that judgement than yourself, and any way there is no wrong or right desicion it is a very individual and personal desicion so how can there be a right or wrong. I haven't read all the other messages as it takes me about 10 minutes to access each one. I just wanted to let you know that I will be thinking of you and your beautiful daughter, I hope it all goes well, and I wish her a speedy recovery, please let us know how it goes.