I have twin boys with SWCAH and I pop in here periodically to listen, get new information and now to lend support.

I have been thinking about you all night and know as a parent that we wrestle with so many life decisions, and know that when we listen to that little voice inside and do the best we can, That is the right thing.

I was saddened to read the preveious (Danny when are you going to add spell check!! )thread, and in the past the same mean spirited opinions about girls and surgery. It truly is the up to the individual parent, the child and the doctor.

We should be here for each other, and be kind, and think, would I be saying this if I was sitting face to face with this person?

Kaye I have a 15 year old daughter and often think about  "what if" and have great respect for what you and alot of other mother's and dad have to go through.

Take Care :)) Kathryn