On the other board you have posted that you have no sensation and cannot achieve orgasm and often have problems in your sexual relationships.  Understandably this is upsetting to you as growing up female and having to void out of your clitoris was.  I am wondering if you could make the decision now instead of your parents which you would choose.  Would you trade being able to feel down there for looking the way you are supposed to?  I know this is a very personal question and i understand if you dont' want to answer it.