Aimee, just so i understand you right.  You had surgery done at 5 years old to open up a fused vagina.  Then redone at 21 for sexual intercourse.  I can understand the vaginal surgery to be necessary in order for you to have your period and have sexual relations.  I guess I get lost when you talk about the surgery to reduce your clitoris.  When was that done and whose idea was it.  If it didn't matter to your parents, are you saying that it was your idea to do that when you were 5 years old?  That's the part I wonder about, too, like Just Curious.  Whether you would still have the clitoral reduction done, and give up the sensation that you've given up just in order to look more like a female.  Sorry to sound so stupid and keep asking the same question, i guess i am still  not exactly sure of your answer.