Aimmee, I am assuming that you that you don't have normal sexaul funcition, right. Meaning you can have intercourse but can't have an orgasm. That is what i got from what you said on the adult board "yea, yea, yea" on sept. 11, when you were talking about your experiences with one of your partners. Not surprising since it sounds like you had a complete clitorecrtomy.  That is why I was asking my question to begin with.  Knowing that you can't have an orgasm would you do the same thing again today.  After reading all these posts, i 'm starting to think maybe the answer to that question isn't so important anymore.  What really matters is what you are left with---which is no feeling--- not whether or not you are happy about it, mad, or neutral.  Thank you for all your answers and helping me to understand this better.