a horrible surgery that has forever affected my life. For several years I thought I was alone until I found the message boards but was scared away when the intersexed deal came up. The last thing I needed was more confrontation on how someone else thought I should be. I do apologize about all the posts of the same entry showing up...lol. It must have been a glitch when I hit enter...Sorry folks...but thanks for letting me vent...

Take care to all...

Cheryl