Look, I don't know where we are going with all this. Neither do I know why your continuosly qouting me out of context and trying to extract yourself from the fact that you have been prejudiced towards me in some way. As far as I am concerned you have been. When you make direct comments about MY upbringing in comparison to your own and assume from that that I am perhaps being "above" you and snotty then how do you expect me to feel? Well when you said that about my upbringing isn't that what you meant? If not what are you driving at when you mention that? I may be new to the board, compared to your one and a half years, but I am not green behind the ears. I know when someone is having a personal STAB at me. So what is all this? I just put a great deal of material on here to help parents. I did not come here to have your badgering me about your problem in accepting that I "misunderstood" your post or misinterpreting it. You did ask me why I responded in the way I did so I gave an answer. If you feel that later on down this thread that by referring to my upbringing in the tone and way that you did was not prejudiced then you seriously need to take a look why you don't find it that way. Isn't anybody allowed to tell you that they misunderstood you without being taken to task and humiliated on a message board? You wanted to know why I took you to issue about something and I told you-because I misunderstood your post. Then you deal me a personal salvo about my upbringing, and badger me in this thread as if I am the one that is prejudiced here. Please, gag me with a spoon!