To Kimberley,

I don’t like to say this as I have been using the message board myself for a long time also and I don’t know about everyone else here but you are now beginning to sound sarcastic as well as rude.  I think it was the sigh at the beginning of your post and the self-righteous tone that does it.  Actually, reading through all your posts on this thread you coming over as quite rude and now self-superior.  You mention people being sarcastic in the first one and how hypocritical do you think you are sounding right now in being sarcastic?  You also sound too confrontational and it must be enough to frighten new parents away.  If you have been using the message board for so long, do you think that it is looking like you are a seasoned board user here at the moment?  Pebbles is new to the board.  Is there something bothering you at the moment besides the confusion over a misread of your first post here?  I have been using the message board for some time now myself and, well to be honest; I really am disappointed in you.   What are you trying to prove here?