Thank you for your explanation. It addressed a few of my questions. I guess the key thing is being what you feel most comfortable with at the end of the day. It's obviously not all so easy as doing surgery to normalize a child when they are young and hoping that that will solve the problem. From the way that you write, it seems that a higher percentage of cah girls feel this way. I have the attitude, "Well what is going to change for this generation of cah girls in this sense where sexuality as an adult is concerned?" "What will change to make them accept any surgery performed on their genitals to make them more accepting of it?" My answer is a resounding, "Nothing." Simply because there is no difference between the girls born 20 - 40 years ago with cah or now. The only difference is that there is the possibility to better educate yourself as a parent before you make any decisions concerning your daughters outer appearance. Meanwhile girls are just as affected as they were by cah as they were all that long ago. In their varying degrees and mostly no doubt are going to be facing the same decisions about where they stand on the sexuality front many years from now. Let's just hope that we can make things much better for them by dealing with the surgery issues and the constant examinations. It really needs to be. Pebbles