Great to hear positive and encouraging thoughts and experiences on this board.  I think there is far too much negativity on the board, however I guess these people find it therapeutic to vent their anger/frustrations somewhere so it might as well be here.  I believe that CAH affected people who are generally happy and content with their lives don't need to come to message boards like this, they are not looking for answers and don't have that anger built up inside which needs to be released.  They are busy getting on with their lives and making the best of what they have.  It would be nice to hear more from these 'positive' CAHers, but good on them for getting on with life.