I don't for a second think Ms. Impatient meant any harm either.  Perhaps because of past tension on the board it might have been interpreted that way.  I am sure that Valerie probably just wanted to protect the board from another long, drawn out bru-ha-ha.  Matter of fact, she probably thought about the response after firing off due to past discussions and it was too late to take that posting away.  Nevertheless, I thought it was a nice gesture on her part.  It's okay Valerie!  I know you meant no harm!  Blessings, Kaye