There was a woman a while ago (I miss you Lucy), who had a similar experience with her son. Perhaps if you email me with your story and email address I can forward it on to her, OR maybe she still reads the board but doesn't post because, as I remember it, it was extremely controversial at the time. She and I emailed back and forth for a while but have since lost contact. I may still have her email. What a good neighbor you are to show interest in the well being of your neighbor's child. I look forward to "talking" with you.