I mean look at the bright side---when they get above a certain age--they can look after themselves and it is only when they are very tiny or dependant that we really ned to be waking up.  I fully expect Ashley to be seeing to himself when he get's to 16!!!  Even if they have no controlled release capsules.  Believe me, if they would understand treating these kids with dex, I would be doing as Carol does for Nick.  We just could not find a doctor that was happy to control him on dex:)

So unfortunately I have to wake at 2am and do this until he is old enough and ugly enough to take the responsibility on himself.  Besides--they are only growing 16 years---it isn't a life sentence really.