robertahi - I use to live in Oklahoma (1974 to 1993). I live in Virginia now (Washington DC area) . I have two boys with salt wasting CAH ages 3 and 8 years old. I do not have to face surgery but I can relate to your problems because CAH is in my life and lost a daugther to an adrenal crisis. I hope the best for your daughter’s surgery. robertapre@msn.com
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