No, I do not believe anyone who is severe is "abnormal"...I think that severe cases present different, and possibly more difficult challenges, and again, the key is NOT to let them control your life.  (Which I believe can be very difficult, even for those of us with less severe cases.)

I guess I would define abnormal as... those who let any medical condition rule their life AND become bitter about it to the extent that they can’t enjoy themselves.

I would not choose to have CAH obviously.  I have however, made my peace and learned to live with it.

You have a good night as well.  I truly enjoy talking about this.  Its theraputic.