I am pregnant with my second child. We have a four year old SWCAH child who has always done very well, thank God! My husband and I decided not to try Dex upon much discussion with our doctor. Well with all the hormones and such that go along with pregnancy, I want an ultrasound (non-evasive) the 3-D kind that might tell us something so we can prepare mentally for whatever comes our way. I was just wondering if anyone else has been in our situation and would you mind sharing your thoughts.  I don’t feel like any doctor I have seen understands what it feels like to wait and not know. I want to be prepared. It would just feel better. Thanks Jen