WOW!!! I didn’t realize what I started, but glad I did. I can’t believe all of the info and the varying degrees of opinions. All of which I am glad to have read. I have had a lot to think about and am going to stick with my original decision, not taking dex. My son is a beautiful four year old and I love him just the way he is. That is how God intended me to have him and I know he has a plan for him, just like he had for me. God only gives you what he can handle! I strongly believe that. So, again thank you to everyone , and especially to my friends who supported me regardless of what there decsion was. I trully appreciate your time and the info and insight I have gained.  Good Luck and God Bless! 

Jennifer