I don’t agree Danny. Perhaps you have that out look on life but I have seen many people suffering desperately ill and in so much pain that they don’t know what to do with themselves!  Hormones, circumstances have a lot to play as well as the support the person gets.  I could go on but would just start a debate which is not what I want to do.  We all feel and think differently that is what makes us human.  I would choose for my child not to have CAH and the other health problems because I do not like to see my child ill, I do have a child with health problems there are days it breaks my heart.  Depression is an illness itself - people do not choose to have it!