SandraHi Bebe,
I forgot to say congrats and don’t worry too much. I’m sure it will be ok.
You mentioned that you don’t want to do DNA on your son. You do have another option. You can have them do an ACTH stimulation test on him to check. I also have two older boys, 7 and 4 and instead of doing a DNA test done on them, I got the ACTH stimulation test done. If and when they decide to have kids, they can get a DNA test done along with their wives. Both of my two older boys did not have CAH. I am thinking about trying for a girl ( or whatever God gives me) but I already did have DNA done on myself and my husband. I will take the Dex and I will have a CVS done to find out if the baby has CAH or not. Mostly though to find out if I need to continue the Dex or not. I don’t believe that CAH is a reason to terminate a pregnancy so no matter what I would have the baby but I don’t want to be on drugs if I don’t have to.
Well, I hope you have a great pregnancy and that you have a healthy, happy baby, CAH or not.
Sandra