One:  The issue of sex is not controversial from what I could gather.  I mean it is legal at 16 yrs and above anyway---may differe from country to country.

Two:  Person here did not mention age.  How can you therefore assume it is someone too immature to have sex?  It just seemed to me it could be a very mature adult but a little concerned about this issue.

Three:  Since when did the majority of people these days wait until marraige before they decided it was a good time to have a fullfilling relationship with someone?  A  piece of paper isn’t going to stop anyone marching out the door when they discover your different is it?  I would have thought everyone was aware of that in this day and age.  Also, the vast majority of the time, a lot of teens get this treatment not just CAH women I would imagine.  If someone went around saying a boy had a small penis after having such a situation happen--who takes em seriously?  More often than not, it is the person spreading such maliscious rumours that looks pathetic in my opinion.  Gossip and maliscious tongue is not exactly an attractive trait for other partners to take a liking to is it?  Besides I always did think folks doing that were just dumped---and a bit disgruntled about it.