After having a long term relationship, i bought up the issue of having surgery with my vagina as a young girl. I did not go into specifics. He was great and understood to be careful. I am sure that you will make the right decision, we can’t decide for you if it is time, as we do’n’t know you.

I think that if u are as specific as you need to be to let them know of the possibilities of sexual problems you may expect, i.e...you may find it quite painful having sex due to the vagina being constricted after suregy, or scaring tissue being present. I think that if you know of an area of your genitals which you are uncomfortable with, or feel you may have issues with, talk to him about it. Its not a time to point out the negatives, but the positives of the situation. You love each other, and you wish to share this experience with each other. Understanding that you have had surgery and may still have a few tell tail signs of  CAH presnt, ie enlarged clitrous should not be a worry for you. I was very worried about him finding out and had no idea how to say...hey i have to let you know, that my medical condition required surgeons to do a little bit of tinkering under the bonnet...all went fine, and i am sure that you will be fine as well.

Good luck with it,

all people here love to offer their feelings for the best even if they may seem contradictory to what you feel is right.

take care

A friend