Anne Marie, Of course I asked him if he planned to wait for the right girl and he said "They are all the right girls,  It is a double standard and always has been".  He wants his sister to save herself but on the other hand.... Well you know what I mean.  He says he believes in waiting for sex until after marriage but he did not wait so I dont know that he has set the same standard for himself he has set for his sister.... Well he stands firm that the 18 yr old in the thread should wait and be absolutely sure so she does not put herself through any unnecessary heartache.  At least his heart seems to be in the right place......