"These types of posts are exactly why I believe this board to be more harm than good and more stressful than helpful.  If this bickering could be eliminated, more CAH work, help and support could be realized by the members of this community."

 

Ditto!  However, the above post was to me and personal.  I had the right to respond to it in the circumstances as anyone using this message board would.  Since it was addressed "to me" and I addressed my post "to Carol" that should rule out others feeling stressed here. 

I find it as tireless as anyone else here, but will respond as I value my integrity as much as anyone else using the board.  If I emained silent, then it would also imply that "I was agreeing with what Carol had said within her post." I most certainly do not and I think most people in my shoes would respond also.  

Sorry you had to read it.  It would rather it where in email and it could have been but the mere fact it was put on here for all to read suggests to me that Carol wasn’t particularly respectful of what others would think anymore than I when I responded.  Since she put it here, I assumed it would be fitting to respond for all to read also.  Email would have been nicer --but unfortunately it didn’t happen that way did it?  .  ;)