I am bowing out of this debate as at this point as it seems to have took a turn for Carol versus Anne-Marie which is not how I would want things to be.    I would have thought that any view is a valid one---especially coming from what are essentially only parents who have different Doctors.  Since we all learn different things from our Doctors and no two Doctors are alike in their treatment of CAH or views, that is a positive thing not a bad one.  I just replied to Carol in the method she chose to contact me.    In my opinion when things get to this point, they are better off unsaid and perhaps that is what people will do at this point if they don;t like silly pointless debates like this after what were personalized posts.     

If other’s discuss it from here on out it is entirely their responsibility what is said and how things turn out.   I’ll post on all other threads and issues as I normally do.