AimeeMarcy:
Any choice that you make will be the right one. I might not agree with some of the decisions my parents did in regard to CAH but I was raised with empathy to admire why it was done. It was done because they wanted only the best for me. No one is to blame. There is something called the "good enough parent" and that’s all anyone can be. :)
As for being short (I’m 5’1") that never stopped me from dealing with taller people. The bigger they are, the harder they fall(hehehe). People might "try" me at first because I’m cute and sweet looking but look out if they think that they can dismiss what I’m saying. I can get someones attention real quick and they know I’m serious. It goes from "OK, sweetie" to "Ms. Morgan, I’m sorry, I apologize for that.
I’ve had people tell me that I was so cute that they would like to put me in a basket and take me home. Also, I have a great collection of shoes. Real fun with big heels, I go from 5’1" to 5’3" just like that.
Good Luck with whatever you decide !
Aimee