Unfortunately, it is an email that was sent.  Not one to be sent.  I would have to say I reserve the right to ramble when someone has been deemed responsible to dose my child and makes such a hash of it really, no offence of course, I’d rather not let it slip this time.  When I disucssed it with her, she bamboozled me with excuses that were totally unprofessional.  I am not the one in the wrong here... she is, and we are ALL different with the way we deal with situations.  Some dither, some ramble, and some don’t bother at all. I have had SUCH a stressful time the last year with hosptial care and people NOT doing what they are supposed to be doing.  Maybe I’m a perfectionist or something--or maybe people have jobs they cannot cope with or do not do properly.  Half the folks that aqcuire medical degrees just about scrape through with their exams... and the same goes for any job qualification you could care to mention half the time.  I have I guess just grown extremely tired of coming up against too many of them, and it has got to the stage where the slightest thing happen’s, and I have to deal with it there and then.  THIS has made me like this...this is how I cope...other’s may do thing’s differently.  I can’t anymore. 

I feel had anyone else but myself posted here with this problem, there would not have been this response but a sympathetic one.  That is how bad this has got.