I very much like your list of questions for your Dr. The only thing I see is that there are not answers for some of your questions such as Will she have sex without pain? That question can only be answered by her in her first sexual experince. most Dr.s will say should have normal sensation and of course they should say that. as Dr Milton Diamond once told me what Dr. in thier right mind would do a surgery and then call it a failure and since the true final results are not seen for many years later. One question I would add in your list is this one. If this was your daughter would you preform the same surgery on her. if this surgery is going to involve the clitoris then I would ask why not give her body a chace to grow into to her clitoris. This does happen and I have talked to women who have had enlarged clitoris and they grew into them. I had 9 surgeries some were neccessary and some were not. I am one whos failed and I have problems that will last through out my lifetime. I have not found anyone who can repair the damage caused to me. The Dr at the time was the best in his field and he is now in Florida from what I am told. My point is just because they are the best in what they do and they have done many of these type of surgeries things happen and is not fun being the one whose surgery failed. My surgeron and most never follow up on thier patients for 15 or 20 years to see if things really work out well. If they did then maybe there would be some accurate data and things could change. I always ask this question and I will leave with this question If you were going to get on an airplane and you were told that there was a 10% chance of the plane you are flying in crashing would you still take the flight? If anyone would like to email me please feel free to anytime.