Needless to say I have been on quite the emotional roller coaster for the last week, lacking sleep etc.  I am just as shocked/upset/concerned as I was when I first learned of her diagnosis, but once again I have "learned" to live with it and just keep trying to learn as much as I can so that I am more informed this time around and know what questions to ask!  I feel so ignorant that I didn’t ask more questions then or insist on further testing since it is doubtful that the insurance company will pay for it now, and the ex-husband isn’t too thrilled about the DNA testing.  For whatever reason I found it important to keep him in the loop, not one of my brightest ideas!!!!