Thanks to all for the encouragement.  the point that was brought out that our children have a better chance to lead normal lives today than they ones did because of the availability of better medication and treatment in our days makes sense.  But I disagree with the point that there are people who are so happy and because of this they never feel a need to vent.  I don’t believe that there is a person who never experiences hardships that he blames on his CAH (even when it isn’t associated).  Even those of us without CAH have better and worse days.  and if we would have the choice wouldn’t we put the blame on something?  Those that don’t post I’m sure, do so for various different reasons that has nothing to do with them being more satisfied than us.  Although I would appreciate it, I don’t expect that there are only good days in store and there will never ever be harder times for my son.  I just want it to be as minimal and bearable as possible and I hope he will be able to lead as much a productive and happy life as normal people without CAH do. 

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