JennyHeather,
On the top of this message board click on the archives. Then go to August, 2003 click on that. Then go to page 3. You will see a subject titled: Discussing CAH with your child for the first time... Click on the reply one from Kelly Leight from the CARES Foundation - she has an article that a Dr. Susan Baker wrote in one of her newsletters. I believe this is just what your looking for. It will help you in discussing this with your daughter.
Jenny
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