Everytime I get involved in a surgery debate, soooo many people come along and try to scapegoat me for "scaring people off" and yet ignore what may be the more obvious reason.  Here it is once again, and yet again (cause it isn’t the first time) from someone who probably could have used some help from the adult survivors here yet go away because of all the "innocent parents" who "mean well".

Just needed to vent,

Betsy