" I realize my feminine shell has granted me a clever disguise...but I do not like having what defines someone taking away from me "

I can relate to this also, I might not interpret it the way you meant but to me it’s like you have to kill of a part of yourself and think it’s bad like they do in order to fit into their world. I understand it and I don’t blame them. One person wrote to me and called what I had to say about the acceptance of ambiguous genitals a "Dream World " and she wasn’t being mean (I want to give her the benefit of the doubt) it was just her way of looking at it and someone else wrote that how I was born was "Ewww Gross" After that one, I realized that any reaching out to others is not the best idea. So, I guess that I’m trying to say is that I do understand some of your anger but the anger never helped because none of this ever is going to change and I found a peace in that realization.

Happy Trails to y’ all ,

Aimee