i’ve had a surgery done down ’below’ - i think it’s clitoral reduction (parents didn’t tell me much about it and am now trying to find out more from my doc).

sex for the first time was ridiculous cos ’it’ couldn’t even *enter*.  we tried n tried and the more it went in, the more painful it was so we just gave up.  what a sucky first time it was!

had thought about seeing a gynae about this but it got better each time (though it took ages for me not to feel the pain anymore), so i didn’t.

arya