There is a discussion regarding ssi on page 2 of this board (go to the top of the page and click on the 2)  There are lots of different thoughts on the subject. . .I don’t believe that I would ever want my child to be listed as having any kind of disability because she does not. . .and I would not want her to have that stigma attached to her.  But everyone has a right to their opinion.  Good luck.