Alicia - I too don’t see the problem with having this conversation on this board - for heaven’s sake - its a real question and you deserve to have a real answer.

Danny - I disagree with you - there are numerous CAH people who have had sexual feelings towards the same sex when our levels of testosterone were too high - many of us did nothing about those feelings- for some of us the feeling never left even after meds - those of us associate more with being gay. I don’t see why that can’t be talked about - it’s a real issue with CAH. Frankly that burns me up. This kind of discussion should not have to be "in the closet" - back on the controversies board. We are women who have legitimate feelings who come here to find answers and share similarities (and differences). This IS part of CAH. This is not about whether or not we opt to have surgery for our children..... this is about how we WITH CAH feel and think - and for those of us who want to be honest and dare to ask the questions I dont think we should be made to feel strange about it. It is what it is.

Susan A.