Cassy you described my granddaughter to the T. I have the same problems with her and she is three. She has always been a HIGH MAINTENANCE baby. Any solutions or exchange of ideas will be helpful. Mitzi is a very sweet child ,but people are so taken aback because of her strong nature and likes and dislikes. She is just plain demanding and if we don’t respond there is a major meltdown. I feel like I am on lets make a deal sometimes. lol I know I have spoiled her since we took her after her Mother passed away........ but this is just not being spoiled. She is sooooooo strongwilled. Someone please tell me it does get better?  Cheryl